- If your current circumstances were part of God’s plan to develop you as a person, what would you say He is up to?
 
- What would need to change to take your personal life, work or ministry to a whole new level? 
 
- What in your life are you most motivated to change? 
 
- What will your life be like when you achieve this goal? What will be different?
 
- If you knew you couldn’t fail, what would you try?
 
- What would reduce your stress by 50%? 
 
- What does God want to form in your character through this situation? 
 
- What do you need that you don’t have to make this change?
 
- What has God been saying to you over the last three months about this area of your life?
 
- Where is life difficult now?
 
- What do you want more/less of in your life?
 
- What could change about you that would make this situation different?
 
- If you were to list what you think the top three items are on God’s agenda for you, what would they be?
 
- How could you do to let go of responsibility for things that are beyond our control?